The stage was set. Even before you were born. You were to fail. She saw your great potential to lead, inspire and grow beyond the home. And snuffed it out. Andv you didn't even know it. Your siblings were destined for great things, they can do no wrong. You? We cut off your legs before … Lire la suite de She selected you to fail →

As the big day looms, you may be wondering if family is as important as television, movies and general culture say they are, why does family pretend to like me as long as I go with their nonsense? In a narcissistic family, the image of togetherness is purely for show, an outside creation for mass … Lire la suite de Yes, family hate you →

There has been plenty of discussion regarding the abuse of children by narcissistic parents and the roots of mental illness. Whilst I'm not a doctor (and all advice is to be taken with the opinion of a qualified medical doctor), the main issue with adult children of narcissistic parents is the lack of love received, … Lire la suite de Resonantly speaking: the childhood roots of male mental illness →

Empaths have a hard time telling who is an enemy of theirs The concept that people don't like them is alien to them. Why wouod somebody so angelic and peaceful have haters? Well its true. When someone harshly tells them off, it hits them right in the chest. How can someone be that cruel and … Lire la suite de Not everybody needs your help →

I brought you into the world, and I can take you out of it - Narcissist Mother The narcissistic mother rules her family with an iron will and a fist of iron. The narcissist mother is severely lacking empathy for the child, as the child is growing up and asserting their burgeoning independence, it's cut … Lire la suite de The profile of the narcissist mother →

An important tool in coping with the narcissist regime is boundaries. You will have heard about boundaries already but what does it actually mean? A boundary is the point where you as a person begins, and the other person ends. It's your individual personal space. Unfortunately, many empaths are emotionally tied to your narcissist that … Lire la suite de Boundaries! Cut them off! →

When someone treats you like an option, they are teaching you to like yourself - Amber Khan (The Quietest Revolution)

Whilst we acknowledge that the narcissist had made you feel inadequate and unworthy, the real truth is, you are stronger than you realise. Why? No one sane enough would think of continually insulting and tearing down somebody that they are superior to, yet that's what the narcissist regime has done to you.. It has taken … Lire la suite de Stronger than you think →

Yeah, thats what I said. Just like yourself. I know thats a tough task for you right now. See, your time within the narcissistic regime, whether it's your mother, father, siblings... or even your partner, boss or some other random has left you a little beaten up and your self concept tarnished. That was on … Lire la suite de Just like yourself →

The great thing about recovery from the narcissistic regime is, once you're outside it for a while (because you've escaped and are recovering in your own time), you can quickly discern the bad apples in your life. Friends, work colleagues, partners, random people all of a sudden become intolerable because of attitudes, behaviors and habits, … Lire la suite de Don’t put up with bullshit →