When the haters are family…

Yep, not all of your haters are random folk passing by in the course of your life, but the ones in your very midst. So, what to do when your haters are family? Chances are if youte the scapegoat, they already are hating on you big time. But extended family? Yep See, the narcissist family … Lire la suite de When the haters are family…

What could have been…

Had the abuse not happened... Had the years of stolen childhood never occurred... What could have I achieved in that time? What kind of experiences should I have had by now? More successes, less failures? A stable and lucrative career? Several partners? A family of my own, with a loving wife? Assets to my name? … Lire la suite de What could have been…

6 Ways You Were Emotionally Abused As A Child

Here are a following of indicators of childhood abuse, from Hypnosis Downloads. If one or more of these happened to you as a child: criticizing every little thing you do, no matter how innocent bad mouthing you to others constantly mocking and belittling you telling you you're stupid and don't know what's what threatening you … Lire la suite de 6 Ways You Were Emotionally Abused As A Child

Are we the chosen ones for abuse?

[Image: Segopotso Makhutja] Sometimes questions surface spontaneously in the mind of a narcissist survivor of the family regime. Here's one of them: Why were we selected? The answer came as quickly as the question: Because we’re strong. Why were we chosen for this horrendous, soul rape? We were chosen because we have a spirit within … Lire la suite de Are we the chosen ones for abuse?